U'll see many people saying they hate themselves. Some of you, who are reading this blog also believe in these words. Do you catch yourself thinking, "I hate myself"? We hate ourselves for various reasons. Sometimes it is because we say the wrong things at the wrong time. Sometimes we hate ourselves for not living up to our own or another's expectations. The fact is that sooner or later most of us in our lifetime are going to utter the word's "I hate myself." The words "I hate myself" by themselves hold no power over us, but the problem starts when you begin to believe the words. When you start believing these words, you make your life hell.
The main reason behind believing these words is mistakes. Mistakes which we had done in our earlier life. We all relate our present days with it and blame ourselves. But who did not do mistakes? We all make mistakes. I know, I make my share of mistakes everyday. I have found that people are more prone to point out your mistakes than they are to praise you for what you are doing right. If you are not careful, you may start to think that your life is a mistake, which can lead to feelings of hatred towards yourself and others.
Than another main reason to hate ourselves is rejection. We all must face rejection in our lives. Rejection in love, rejection over a promotion at work, rejection in family matters etc. Rejections do come in our life but it should not consume you but should bring out your inner power and potential. Sure, there are times when you are depressed for a little while and there is a lot of self-examination, but over time you'll learned that rejection is not the end, but the beginning of something else.
The main reason behind believing these words is mistakes. Mistakes which we had done in our earlier life. We all relate our present days with it and blame ourselves. But who did not do mistakes? We all make mistakes. I know, I make my share of mistakes everyday. I have found that people are more prone to point out your mistakes than they are to praise you for what you are doing right. If you are not careful, you may start to think that your life is a mistake, which can lead to feelings of hatred towards yourself and others.
Than another main reason to hate ourselves is rejection. We all must face rejection in our lives. Rejection in love, rejection over a promotion at work, rejection in family matters etc. Rejections do come in our life but it should not consume you but should bring out your inner power and potential. Sure, there are times when you are depressed for a little while and there is a lot of self-examination, but over time you'll learned that rejection is not the end, but the beginning of something else.
Why do you hate yourself? There could be any number of reasons. There were times you hated who you are and wanted to change yourself so you could be like everyone else. Then one day you'll realized that you are not like everyone else. You are youself, so remain yourself and soon you'll found that you no longer hate yourself. Do not take the things that happened to you so personally anymore. And above all, BEING YOURSELF IS THE HARDEST THING TO DO.
So, problems will not settle down by just thinking that you are wrong and start hating yourself. Problems gives us a way to realise yourself and find the hidden talent in yourself.
STOP SAYING "I HATE MYSELF" AND BE YOUR BEST FRIEND.
So, problems will not settle down by just thinking that you are wrong and start hating yourself. Problems gives us a way to realise yourself and find the hidden talent in yourself.
STOP SAYING "I HATE MYSELF" AND BE YOUR BEST FRIEND.
a heart touching article..
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